Have you ever had the
experience of having the life sucked out of you by spending time with a
particular person?
I’m talking about
feeling exhausted, bored, irritated, stressed, anxious, threatened, overwhelmed
or depressed after just a few moments in that person’s company.
There may have been
times where you felt guilty for having negative thoughts about that person —
which made you feel even worse. You may even have thought there was something
wrong with you, such as feeling a headache coming on or stressing over a work
deadline. Either way, you didn’t understand why you felt so out of sorts.
If that describes a familiar experience, chances are you have been in the
company of an energy vampire.
Some people, by their very presence, seem to drain the energy of those
unprotected people around them.
All
of us experiencing this at different levels, whether it be a relationship where
you were so manipulated you started questioning your own sanity. Having to
scribe and keep track of each moment because this person was convicting you the
sky was actually purple or simply a friend or coworker not being happy for
fortunate moments within your life. It is the feeling of being drained of your
energy, your natural joy and life force by someone around you. You can feel
them deliberately or unintentionally sapping and mutating their surroundings
into negativity.
Our
main mission here on this planet is to love one another. To join hands and head
and build the higher vibration to shake away all that is lacking. This energy
sapping feeling has to start somewhere in my opinion, originating from a
general expectation for the other person (the energy vampire) to share this
feeling, this mission of mutual elation. The current societal construct has
been built on the opposite ideology telling us unconsciously on a daily basis
since birth, that when we do not get the emotional energy we need (that should
be from sharing) we must then go into dominating or competing with others. An
unconscious competition for energy underlies all energy vampire conflicts. By
dominating or manipulating others, they get the extra energy they think they
need. It feels good to them but both parties are damaged in the conflict. The
truth is always inherently looming though, that we never have to control,
overpower or manipulate anyone or any situation because each person has a
direct line to source energy, the most abundant and powerful source of energy
there is.
So what are the
different types of psychic vampires and how do you spot them?
Poor me’s make us feel
guilty and responsible for them.
This is the person that if you have the flu
they have had it way worse than you or even the one who constantly has the bad
relationship, financial state, and some looming affliction to top it off. Isn’t
it coincidental that the ones who have not been awakened to their line to
source are also sick, broke and out of luck-love? Or is that a coincidence at
all? These people I see the most frequently but are also the least harmful as
most are doing it from a non-malicious and most of the time unconscious
standpoint. Although I have experienced some who this is the tip of the iceberg
to reel you in to the layers of manipulation tactics to have you as their
constant victim and host. When you don’t show up for their pity party this will
come full swing with their arsenal of guilt trips to try to sap energy and attention.
Always try to keep in mind this poor me attitude simply stems from not
receiving enough love from within.
The Aloof sap energy by
showing indifference.
This person is the one who is the too cool for
school guy or gal that will indirectly without saying anything make you
question whether what you are doing should be celebrated at all. They wallow in
their indifference just long enough to psychologically affect your processes to
where the tables and attention is turned towards them instead of your original
source of joy. This is the guy who is completely but quietly disgusted by the
raise you just got or the amazing lesson you have learned in life and want to
share. There is also a siphoning feeling from what you are doing to them
because their main tactic is to stop the flow of energy as a control mechanism.
Interrogators drain
energy by judging and questioning.
These people are the ones who are incessantly
and persistently intent to be right at all cost. Therefore it could be
something that is generally known and they counteract what you are saying by
simply wording different or more precise. These are the ones who are constantly
stepping on your heels to try to get one imaginary (non-existent) step ahead of
you by cutting you down and proving you “wrong”. Their objective is control and
ego boosting since this is coming from insecurity. Their tactic is to form a
mental separation from the universal truth and to have you question your inner
compass and knowing so that they can be in control over you, themselves and the
surrounding situation.
Intimidators steal
energy from others by threat or fear.
In my opinion this is the deepest embedding
vampire and the most sophisticated. This person needs to get close enough to
know your personal fears to use them against you. This is a very primal,
reptilian brain tactic that if you are in fear then they hold the steering
wheel to your decisions and life force energy. This tactic is not to be taken
lightly and often follows with a bribing system. For example: If you don’t do
this you will compromise your or other’s safety. You wouldn't want
that would you? Very malicious. Very deliberate. Perhaps showing the mirror of
what the true comfort to any situation would be instead of the fear. In my
opinion, separation or ignoring is the best counter for this one.
Naturally the next
question to ask would be:
How do I protect myself from energy vampires?
Three step system:
1. Try to uplift the
vampire to a higher vibration.
All things either come from love or are a cry
for love. If the person trying to sap energy from you is looking for love which
is the feeling of connection to their own line to source then remind them of
this. Whether it be through an act of kindness or simply offering words of
empowerment to their situation. This technique works the best for the poor me
type.
2.
If they are resistant to the vibration rising, you can always protect yourself.
If you try to offer them love, they resist
this process you can always go into protection mode. Most people see this as
building a wall, shutting down or visualizing a bubble of white light
surrounding you. While I think the visualization is handy because it brings you
back to your own line of connection and remembrance that you are a powerful
extension of source, this is just a band-aid over the splinter from my
perspective. Since it is only a temporary fix to the situation, if you want to
keep this person around. The situation gets sticky because we have expectations
and they are understandable and universal expectations. This expectation is to
share in the building and acceleration of the collective consciousness. We have
made an agreement and it feels good to share good vibrations with other people
to help raise humanity to ascension. Therefore when an energy vampire starts
sapping your open energy instead of joining in to build the frequency, you give
them open access becoming the victim. This is only because we lower our
vibration in disappointment because of their reaction or action. We can stop
this access by not being a victim of expectation; we simply expect the opposite
for this person (to continue with the same energy draining behavior patterns).
Recognizing that this is independent of our personal experience. You then can
see that you have to be on the same frequency of an energy vampire to even
become the host.
Another “tactic” would
be a healing exercise I like to do when I am offended or feel let down by
someone which is to ask myself what false belief I am holding to allow myself
to feel let down to begin with.
3. Cut ties of
communication or simply ignore them.
Lastly and I say this because I truly believe
we are here as mirrors for one another to help heal one another through sharing
but if this person is persistent enough to be causing you mental and even
physical anguish then it is time to separate yourself whether you do that
physically or mentally. Start focusing on the type of relationships you would
like to surround yourself with and build your environment up with the
frequencies you would like to be vibrating at, this is indirectly energy
vampire repellent for two reasons. One is that energy vampires need a reaction
or your negative attention to continue being vampiric and two they need to have
you be in the frequency of being the victim. So in my opinion it is useless to
try to justify yourself by teaming up with others “against” this person like a
good guy-bad guy scenario because let’s be honest this is multidimensional.
Everyone is neither all good nor all bad; we are just in different levels of
healing and perception. If you start to focus on what you want and less of what
they are doing, you will be surprised at what ease these people disappear. When
you listen to your inner heart compass, your connection to source, you will be
surprised at what “power” you have “over” them because the truth is there is no
higher power than another. There is no control, only oneness. Just keep
following your joy.
To sum this entire up, the dynamics to any
vampiric situation are quite simple as you can see, they start trying to draw
energy from you, and you start to feel the drama from their control tactic
which temporarily leads you away from that sweet connection point to source.
The more you partake in their lower vibration the more”power” you give them.
This is for the Energy Vampires
No one wants to admit it but the truth is we
have ALL been energy vampires at one point or another because we have been
programmed to gain energy through childhood traumas and societal programming
rather than the abundant all oneness. The scale and frequency to which we
perform energy vampirism is unique to each person but the first step to healing
humanity it to remind ourselves and others that we are not only loved but a
channel for the universal all knowing, all powerful interconnected source. We
should dive deep and become aware of the subtle energies around us and try to
understand where the false belief is within your subconscious to cause this to
situation to arise, then once recognized replacing it with the truth. When we
do this there is just not any time or space for anything other than soaking up
those warm, yummy, joyful frequencies. Radiating and sharing these accelerating
frequencies with everyone surrounding within this universal now moment.
So stop being an energy vampire and get your
energies from the source itself...
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